New Research Indicates That Significant Numbers Of Children As Young As 11 Are Engaging In Sexual Activity And That Dating Violence And Abuse Are Part Of Their Relationships
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New Research Indicates That Significant Numbers Of Children As Young As 11 Are Engaging In Sexual Activity And That Dating Violence And Abuse Are Part Of Their Relationships
Attorney General Patrick C. Lynch, President Of The National Association Of Attorneys General, Launches A Nationwide Initiative To Establish Curricula On Teen Dating Abuse In Schools
The nation's leading experts find the number of tweens in abusive relationships staggering
Washington, D.C. - July 8, 2008 - A new survey reports today that a surprising number of young adolescents are experiencing significant levels of dating violence and abuse. One in five children between the ages of 13 and 14 (20%) say their friends are victims of dating violence and nearly half of all tweens in relationships say they know friends who are verbally abused. Alarmingly, 40% of the youngest tweens, those between the ages of 11 and 12, report that their friends are victims of verbal abuse in relationships and nearly 1 in 10 (9%) say their friends have had sex.
Liz Claiborne Inc. and loveisrespect.org, National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline, commissioned the survey on Tween and Teen dating relationships that was conducted by Teenage Research Unlimited (TRU) to explore how relationships among young adolescents are fueling high levels of dating violence and abuse.
Attorneys General President, Patrick C. Lynch of Rhode Island Takes Action
Recognizing the significance of this alarming trend in tween sexual activity and dating abuse, President of the National Association of Attorneys General (NAAG), Rhode Island Attorney General Patrick C. Lynch, along with Nebraska Attorney General Jon Bruning, introduced an unprecedented initiative at NAAG's June meeting to ensure that all Attorneys General work to incorporate a teen dating violence and abuse curriculum in every school in their states.
"Over the past four years Liz Claiborne Inc. has conducted research into the many aspects of teen dating abuse. What makes this current study so disturbing is the clear and unexpected finding that dating abuse and violence begins at such a young age," says Jane Randel, Vice President, Corporate Communications, Liz Claiborne Inc. "We applaud the willingness of Attorney General Lynch to push for the introduction of education about dating abuse in schools across the country. This research shows just how urgently this information is needed."
This Teen Dating Violence Education Resolution is inspired by the Lindsay Ann Burke Act, a law proposed by Attorney General Lynch that became effective in Rhode Island in July 2007. The Act, named in the honor of Lindsay Ann Burke, who was murdered after a 2-year struggle in an abusive relationship, requires all school districts in Rhode Island to teach about the signs of dating violence and abuse every year from grades 7- 12. Attorney General Lynch and Lindsay's parents, Ann and Christopher Burke, will join Jane Randel at a press conference to announce the data findings and the Attorneys General new initiative to combat dating abuse.
"We are committed to addressing this issue through education. Abuse and violence in intimate partner relationships not only cause great individual pain, but this destructive behavior breaks down families, communities and our larger society," says Attorney General Lynch. "A curriculum such as Liz Claiborne Inc.'s Love Is Not Abuse is an effective way to begin the process of education, prevent abuse and help to save lives."
Liz Claiborne Inc.'s Love Is Not Abuse curriculum aims to raise awareness about the problem of dating abuse, recommend resources that provide assistance, such as loveisrespect.org, National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline, and ultimately, help prevent dating abuse from occurring in the future. The curriculum was piloted around the country in October 2005 and was officially launched in April 2006. As of June 2008, this free curriculum has been distributed to approximately 3,500 schools and organizations across all 50 states.
Experts comment on alarming findings and support education initiatives
To help analyze the new survey findings, Liz Claiborne Inc. recruited the country's top ten leading experts on tween and teen dating abuse to assess the data. Experts found high levels of tween and teen dating abuse combined with a lack of knowledge from both parents and children on the signs of harmful dating. The results clearly imply that there is a great need for more parental education and involvement, and schools need to institute teen dating abuse curriculum beginning as early as 6th grade.
"The survey's data on the extent of emotional and controlling behaviors among tweens are the most critical additions to our current knowledge of abuse in adolescent relationships," says Dr. Elizabeth Miller, Assistant Professor in Pediatrics at the U.C. Davis School of Medicine. "The numbers of tweens in relationships who report experiencing emotional abuse and controlling behaviors are staggering. Clearly this shows that many young people are already experiencing unhealthy relationships early on (even in the absence of sexual activity), many recognize these behaviors as not acceptable, but few know where to seek help or how to help a friend."
Among the key findings:
Dating relationships begin much earlier than expected
- Nearly three in four tweens (72%) say boyfriend/girlfriend relationships usually begin at age 14 or younger.
- More than one in three 11-12 year olds (37%) say they have been in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
- 62% of tweens who have been in a relationship say they know friends who have been verbally abused (called stupid, worthless, ugly, etc) by a boyfriend/girlfriend.
- Two in five (41%) tweens who have been in a relationship know friends who have been called names, put down, or insulted via cellphone, IM, social networking sites (such as MySpace and Facebook), etc.
- One in five 13-14 year olds in relationships (20%) say they know friends and peers who have been struck in anger (kicked, hit, slapped, or punched) by a boyfriend or girlfriend.
- Only half of all tweens (51%) claim to know the warning signs of a bad/hurtful relationship.
- More than one in three teens report that their partners wanted to know where they were (36%) and who they were with (37%) all the time.
- Among teens who had sex by age 14, it's much higher (58% and 59%, respectively).
- 29% of teens say their boyfriends/girlfriends call them names and put them down, compared to 58% of teens who had sex by age 14.
- 22% of teens say they were pressured to do things they did not want to do, compared to 45% of teens who had sex by age 14.
- 69% of all teens who had sex by age 14 said they have gone through one or more types of abuse in a relationship.
The survey found that parents think they know about their tweens dating experiences, but many are in the dark about what their kids are actually doing. Results show that:
- More than three times as many tweens (20%) as parents (6%) admit that parents know little or nothing about the tweens' dating relationships.
- Twice as many tweens report having "hooked up" with a partner (17%) as parents reported of their own 11-14 year old child (8%).
Survey Methodology
Liz Claiborne Inc. commissioned Teenage Research Unlimited (TRU) to
conduct quantitative research among tweens (ages 11-14), parents of
tweens, and teens (ages 15-18) who have been in a relationship. The
research pertained to young dating relationships and the
presence/absence of sexual activity and abusive behaviors. TRU
independently sampled the three groups and fielded a customized
15-minute survey online to each group from January 2-18, 2008; TRU
chose online as the data-collection method for this research not only
because of its high penetration (92%) among this population, but also
because of the sensitive nature of the content, allowing young people
to answer candidly (i.e., no adult interviewer) within the context of
their preferred communications method. A total of 1,043 tweens, 523
parents, and 626 teens completed the survey, resulting in a margin of
error (at the 95% confidence level) of ±3.0 percentage points for
tweens in total, ±3.9 points for parents, and ±4.1 points for teens
(±5.5 among those 17-18).
Liz Claiborne Inc.
Since 1991 Liz Claiborne Inc. has been working to end domestic
violence. Through its Love Is Not Abuse program, the company provides
information and tools that men, women, children, teens and corporate
executives can use to learn more about the issue and find out how they
can help end this epidemic. www.loveisnotabuse.com.
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline is a resource that can be
accessed by Internet or phone. The Helpline and loveisrespect.org offer
real-time one-on-one support from trained advocates. The National
Domestic Violence Hotline operates loveisrespect.org, National Teen
Dating Abuse Helpline, from their call center in Austin, Texas.
Loveisrespect.org provides resources for teens, parents, friends and
family, advocates, government officials, law enforcement officials and
the general public. All communication is confidential and anonymous. In
the first year of existence, Loveisrespect.org has received 5,455 calls
and 3,026 chats with the most common participant identifying themselves
as a "victim/survivor". The Helpline is operated by the National
Domestic Violence Hotline and was established through a gift from Liz
Claiborne Inc.
National Association of Attorneys General
The National Association of Attorneys General was founded in 1907 to
help Attorneys General fulfill the responsibilities of their offices
and to assist in the delivery of high quality legal services to the
states and territorial jurisdictions. NAAG fosters interstate
cooperation on legal and law enforcement issues, conducts policy
research and analysis of issues, and facilitates communication between
the states' chief legal officers and all levels of government.
Click here to view the Tween and Teen Violence Dating Abuse Survey in its entirety.
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